Cake Server Sets Wedding/Relationship Question?

Wedding/Relationship question? - cake server sets

What can I do exwife w / my husband soon the wedding cake server / knife set? Should I try to find her and ask her if she wants to go back engraved with his name and his name with the wedding date, and she told me it was a gift from his family. Lenox is set a wedding .... They do not know what to do.